Cute Psychologist + Catch up ........and some baked goodies

Tuesday 29 July 2014

*unlocks door, walks in, waves broom in the air and brushes it against the wall*
My loveeeeeeeeeeessssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss!
I've missed all of you guys so much. I've missed blogging. I will have time to fill you guys in on all my stories that I've been putting down (but not publishing just yet). Please stay with me. I will fill you guys in on it all in a bit.


I am sorryyyyyyy.
It's been 5 months. What an adventurous 5 months. I ranted a lot in those 5 months (to myself most of the time) But all in all Thank You Jesus! Forgive me for ranting so much.
I'm of course going to say I'm sorrryyyyyy it's been so long.
Congratulations to all my munchkins who graduated and are graduating this summer! Welldone you guys!

This was heavily chocolatey, had fun making it though. The top was made purposely like that - went for the messy look. Twas good.

This cake is to say I'm sorry!!!! I enjoyed making the chocolate (shell?? or what do I call it?, we'll stick with shell) Shell.

How are you guys? I do hope you all are good.
Thanks Toin, Gospel Girl, and Chantel for checking up on moi! Huge hugs and some apple crumble for ya.
Le Sisto has been yelling at me 'Tee you haven't blogged since heaven knows when', it's not cool'.
It's just been trying to get the time to type all the things on my mind and that. Also the fact that I've been in a relationship a long relationship with my MS word, Pen, Pencils, textbooks, hand gel  and all that.
Okay, I'm sorry guys.

So part of my training involves working with psychologists. I got posted to this setting where I was in 'close contact' with this particular psychologist. Boy was he foineeee?  He had a sister doing the two step.
Okay let me describe him;
He is of average height, soft spoken. He wears glasses and always had his sleeves rolled up 1/4. He has blueish eyes (can't fully recall). His skin was lush (what? I had to do my observations well).  He mostly had a clean shave but one a few occasions he left his beard and looked like Brad Pitt. His accent = UH-Mazing. He was friendly and always had a relaxed face. Annoying bit - I'm taller. He had this natural parting in his hair, right in the middle but he combs his hair backwards Leonardo DiCaprio style.

Matter of fact - He looks completely like Leonardo, okay maybe almost completely
He's a pretty cute psychologist. It was always nice seeing him stroll in, flashing a cute smile - shocker - his teeth wasn't all that. Anyway he always made my day whenever he came over to see clients or whenever we had case discussion (which he led).  Got a student falling over herself. Haha!
Funny thing is, he looks at you with such intensity that if you weren't in your sense you'd think he was head over hills in love with you. He wasn't head over hills with me - HA! Downside - He uses swear words which is a MAJOR turndown for me.
PS. Future Mr Mr, you have to look at me with such intensity and actually be in love. And you have to also show it... Take note! LOL!
So towards the end of my posting, I was told to have a one to one session with him- WHAT???!!!! Trap!! Big Trap!
I was NOT wanting to do this - I didn't want to have the eye contact or anything, I mean he's a psychologist. He might be able to interpret my body language (haha) or read my mind (oh no).

Me: Hey Justin, so are you free next week for the one to one session
Justin: Oh Hey Tee, sure let me check my diary......yes sure Tuesday will do
Me: Cool, I'll see you then (keeping the nerves under control and trying to avoid prolonged eye contact or show signs of my thoughts) What?? A sister is allowed to crush a little bit sometimes hahaha!
Justin: Sure, see you then

NOTE: his name isn't Justin.

Fast forward to one to one session
Justin: Hey Tee, I'm here when you're ready
Me: Sure I'll be with you in a bit

During the session, the intensity of Justin's stare almost made me run outta the room. But I kept my cool and kept avoiding awkward eye contact or prolonged silence. He was toooooooo cute.
Obviously, I knew this secret crush I had was only for a few weeks and was going to fade away completely after I walked out of the door on the last day. Yes it faded immediately after I left the setting.

Fast forward to weeks later, a friend came up to me in class to ask about this psychologist. Girl please! Kelly had been at the same service before me and guess what, she was having some kinda intense crush on this guy....come on now! Now you can guess how cute he is.
They met again at a wedding and she told me that they had this awkward conversation where she was expecting him to ask her  out (because of the way he stares) and said he stuttered and asked her if he could have a word with her. She obliged and he said something along the lines of "so I just wanted to ask how you're doing?". She gave me the craziest look ever when she told me that, I could feel her pain LOL! She expected him to ask for her number or something
Kelly (the girl) then said to me, I think I'm just going to ask him if he wants to ask me out or something (my jaw dropped at this point)

Kelly went on to say that if he doesn't ask, that she might just ask him out for a drink (and maybe take things further from there?). I was surprised like I couldn't believe that this girl was not only taking her own crush on this cute psychologist further but she was SERIOUSLY 'crushing'.
I admitted to her though that he's pretty cute and his eyes are breath-taking and that was it. The fact that she actually took this crush overly seriously made me chuckle.

I ain't gon' lie though, this psychologist was way too fine.  Have I said that already?

I shall get back to you guys on this one. I do hope they become an item though. That would be extra cute.

One of my baby girls wanted a birthday cake so I had to make this in a hurry- excuse the untidy base

I made this one in a great hurry but it still looked nice anyway - she sent me a text the next day saying "thank you for my cake, although I don't really eat cake, I really liked this and my friends did too". #HappyAunt!
It was coconut cake with cream cheese frosting - I covered it with fondant just reason. Oh yeah there's a reason, she wanted colours.
Okay that's it! Enjoy guys. I love BAKING!!! but hate cleaning up after though because I'm usually very tired at this point but I still clean up anyway.

Thanks Cee for the Liebster award - I'll blog about  after this post.

Lots of love


  1. Yayyy someone is cleaning out the cobwebs slowly...good to have your back...and thanks for the apple crumble as if you know *i loveee that alot* put a bit of ice cream or cream on it and u got me licking my fingers...oh u were saying something abt an untidy cake? sorry didn't see it..all i saw was a cute as cake..i need to learn how to bake..*on my to-do list*...and about the crush i can only imagine what he looks like...okay before my comment turns into a post of it's own..biko bye bye..

  2. Ah, seems like i'll have to get me a slice of that cutie! That chocolatey cake though... *sigh*

  3. Eskiss me.... Clears cobweb for you too... Lol,how are you hun? Glad your back. Please stop frustrating me with these cakes na God is watching you oh! Please tell me your in Canada let me place an order fast

  4. You are getting better with this cake thing o. I got disappointed when you told me he swears. Gist us about how it went with him and Kelly later.

  5. hehe! Yay! She's back oh!! Welcome.

    Cake(s) looking so nice when are we going to chop it?

    All these crushing that all of you are crushing oh... hmmm... We want more gist o. Too bad he swears.

    Good to have you back!

  6. Welcome back.
    Infatuation tinz huh? Oya, come yarn us #adjust my sitting position#
    You baked that cake? I like cakes.

  7. I love cakes!!! I usually feel guilty after indulging these days though *sigh*
    Couldn't stop laughing at your "short lived' crush :p

  8. Awwww, I want cake for my birthday tomorrow...


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